Destiny

2008-08-19T08:38:00.000-07:00

Lin's Post 19 August

Do you believe in Life After death? Do you believe in reincarnation? Does Everlasting Love really exist? What's our purpose in living? Well, different people have different believes and different evidences to back their believes. This has nothing to do with the 7th Lunar month in the chinese calendar.

I do have my own idealogy. I do believe in life after death and that us as people do have our purpose for living. I believe our afterlife is the reccurence of our current life but a life where we correct our current regrets. In short, Life's like a video game and when we die, we start from stage one, the point of birth and end at the point of death. But this time, whatever regrets we have, we correct them. We're all living in personal time frames. We're all specimens our creator created to perfect human life. To create the perfect strongest being, able to withstand all physical and mental obstacles. How do you think dejavu's occur? It happens as we've actually been through the same scenario before and serves as a warning to prevent us from making decisions we might regret.

As for eternal love, I for one trust its existence. Love is almighty and as much as i believe the existence of reccurring timeframes ( Life ). I believe the fate and love families, spouses and friends share will reccur forever until our maker has finally created a perfect human. When we die, love remains and its the love between two people who brings people together in the next timeframe. It serves as a compass, when we meet that special someone, our heart will beat extra fast, as though its telling us, " Yes, she/he is the one." Darling, you're the special someone i've been looking for as my heart only beats extra fast in your presence. I know the rythem of your heartbeat synchronizes with mine as one too. I can feel our heart's duet, for you alone can my heart sing.

I believe our love will be eternal and it will be as strong throughout this lifetime and even after death. Darling, I love you eternally.

(P.S. Creator, don't rush to make the perfect being as I don't want my reccurring destiny with my Darling, My family and friends to end. )

Lin Loves His Darling Tan Wei Xuan

Lin's Post July 26

2008-07-25T19:38:00.001-07:00

Lin's Post July 26

Love exists in all forms, able to be felt or given. Everyone loves someone or something at least yea? Its a very very powerful feeling. It blinds people and often cause people to do things which aren't logical at all. It brings about emotions such as passion, desire, jealousy, and even greed. How could something so strong and so good bring out awful emotions in people? For the love of someone or something, some would even kill or rob and in turn hurt people.

So may I ask now? Is love all good and pure? Sometimes i really wonder. As for my love for my gf in our R/S, I can safely say " I love her " without thinking and knows she feels the same too. This type of feeling is mutual and i'm really grateful for that. Love can make the meek strong and can give confidence and support to people in times of need. Love in turn makes someone reliant and dependent on another person.

Can money buy love? If not, why do people pay to get vietnamese brides? Marriage should be holy and sacred, but why do people nowadays marry on impulse? Divorce if they aren't happy with their partner no longer? I feel really sad to know this fact, the fact that couples once so madly in love would leave their partner after tying the knot and vowed not to leave each other in times of sorrow and pain? How I envy most couples in the past, once they marry, they really stay with each other till the end. Be it rich or poor, sick or not, at least you'd have a person whom you can safely trust to be beside you. Nowadays, couples divorce mainly because of monetary disputes and often i wonder " why money? " For this fact, is "LOVE" something which can be bought? Think about it, especially divorced/broken up couples, when you choose to love, do not regret, if you feel you'd have regrets, don't even try. This is what i learn. Don't hurt the other party by backing out on your decisions. Divorced moms and dads, you do not only hurt yourselves but your kids as well.

Endurance is gold. I love you darling. I know you love me too. =). There maybe times when we quarrel. But we know, we're made for each other. Thank for tolerating my flaws. I wont give you up ever.

Signing out

Lin. Loves. Xuan.

2008-07-10T11:20:00.001-07:00

July 11, 2008

Lin's Post for the day

Hey. Im back for my second post. Human relations and respect is what i'm gonna touch on today. In this very world we live in, human relations' very important. No one and i do mean NO ONE can stand alone. As people, we depend on other people's strength to strengthen our weaknesses. For me, i need constant nagging and reminder from my dear gf and family as my will power is low. =). Thank you darling~ Thanks mom and sibs~. Aint it nice if everyone could realise another person's effort to help us and maybe say a little "Thank you"?

Well its harder for a superior to give a little compliment to his/her subordinates in this world I live in. Some superiors view themselves as superior and have little respect for their subordinates. People do make mistakes. So do you i presume? Why go all the way just to bring another person down? Is that the way to earn respect nowadays? =/. Its so ironic. A leader is what we need in the society now. Not the bossy "hard-to-get-along-with" bosses we frequently see now. Bosses guilty of this crime out there, i hope u guys could change, to a leader. No one likes to get scolded or blamed. Neither humiliated or reprimanded til they feel so bad of themselves. Put yourself in their shoes and u'll know. well, you do not want your children to suffer such fate under their bosses in future yea? we.. for this i end.

Signing off.

Lin

July 5th

2008-07-04T22:22:00.000-07:00

Lin thoughts as on July 5th 2008

Once again, working, mugging, struggling. Life's a routine in Singapore. Its all about studies, work, struggling to survive. Take my life for example. I wake up every morning, wash up, text my girlfriend and prepare to leave for school. Thereafter, i would try my best to rush back home and tend my very own Cyber Cafe. Lots of other kids would be envious of my life yea? Getting to use the computer, play games to a large extend. What they do not understand is that once a person is bounded to such a life, he/she loses their freedom and some "going-out time" with their girlfriend/boyfriend. Singapore is far too competitive in my opinion. Parents do not want their children to lose out thus making them sign up for tons and tons of extra curriculum activities. Is it what the child really want? This "KiaSuism" is hereditary as children would in turn inherit this "KiaSuism" from their parent having a misconception of it being beneficial.

For money and reputation people can give up their dreams and some even their humanity. Therefore i view money as evil. Since money is evil, why is it that people of all race and religion strive so hard for it? Charitable organisations collect "Donations" in thousands and millions but how much exactly is really donated to those in need and how much of the money is used on mindless publicity? In Buddhist teachings. "To attain true enlightenment, one must forsake all worldly desires." I agree with this phrase. Having forsaking all worldly desires, one will be rid of the 7 deadly sins which is usually brought about by money and status.

If only everyone could be content with what they have. Look around and we'll realize we've actually already blessed with the best of what life's got to give- Care. Some of us may see it in their families, some in their friends and others in their spouse or partners. It does not really matter, with care a person becomes confident and happy. Don't you all agree? =). Only in times of hardship will one really grow up. Only when faced with problems which causes devastation will one realize the one's folly and change. Chances are given and should be cherished. Its only given by people who care for you. Do embrace that care and cherish every moment we have. live life to the fullest.

P.S. I love my girlfriend, My mom, My brother, My sister and my friends. =).

Signing off

Lin.